Spiritual Sex: The Transformative Power of Feeling Safe (written by Linda E. Savage of Huffington Po
(Original article courtesy of The Huffington Post.) Our culture does not recognize that feeling safe is a crucial ingredient to really good sex. In fact, with the porn model of sex, which is the prevailing way men (and women who want to please them) learn about sexual practices, the opposite is assumed: that good sex is risky and novel with a focus on genital functioning. Often these images of supposedly great sex remove the deep relational context and focus purely on the rus